Dependence

In Genesis 2, God told Adam and Eve they could eat freely from any tree in the garden of Eden except for the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. He said if they decided to eat from it anyway, they would surely die. This pronouncement was part of the curse God later gave in Genesis 3 after Eve and Adam went ahead and ate the fruit, right? Of course, as the serpent predicted to Eve, they didn’t die right away after eating the fruit, but figurative and spiritual death aside, they did start to die physically.

It hasn’t been long since I finished writing a Bible study called Glimpses of Jesus in Early Genesis. When I say “finished,” I mean that I completed the heart of it, but I still have a lot of editing to do with the help of wonderful family and friends who have given me some very helpful criticism, encouragement, and suggestions. I’m not sure when I started writing this study, but I can say that it’s been a few years now. However, a new thought about the punishment of death came to me that had never occurred to me before. I love that I can continually mine the depths of Scripture and keep finding new insights through the Holy Spirit.

In fact, I wasn’t even studying the Word when I realized this. I was listening to someone a little farther along in years than I am. She mentioned in passing that as we grow older, we grow more and more dependent on God. She wasn’t talking about Adam or Eve or the curse, but as I’ve been recently studying about them, their punishment of death jumped to the forefront of my mind, and I thought, Wait a second! The death and dying process that seemed to be a curse to Adam and Eve was actually a blessing; it was actually what they needed!

I had never thought of the slow decay of our bodies as a blessing before, a direct remedy to the problem of sin. If Adam and Eve were going to rebel against God, thinking in pride that they could be like Him, they were going to need the humility that comes when we become physically weak. When they thought they could go their own way and do what they wanted to do in opposition to God’s way, they were going to need to be put in a place where they couldn’t go their own way or do what they wanted without help. Perhaps they could choose to get their help solely from other humans, but as many find, the help other humans can give us is limited–only God can give us everything we need.

How kind He was to make this process for the most part gradual so we can learn this lesson in a way that we can handle. We are born helpless, dependent on others, but for the most part not understanding much about our ultimate dependence on God because of our limited understanding as children. We depend on our parents or our caregivers, and in so doing, learn from birth how to trust and get help when we need it. As we grow, we learn how to be more independent, but if we are wise, we remember some of the lessons we learned as children. If we don’t remember these lessons of humility, trusting others and ultimately God for help when we need it–if we, like Adam and Eve, are rebellious–we always have the slow bodily decay to bring us back to the lesson we should have learned in the beginning. Now, as adults we can understand that no caregiver can truly help us with what we need–we need God. May our heart cry to Him, “For you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the foe. I long to dwell in your tent forever and take refuge in the shelter of your wings” (Psalm 61:3-4).

Recently I celebrated my 36th birthday. I suppose I’m not old enough to truly understand this concept by personal experience, but I am at an age when I’m starting to notice the start of my bodily decay. I can’t run as fast as I used to be able to; I get injured more often (especially when I try to run as fast I used to); it’s harder to make extra pounds go away; I have some alarming lines between, around, and especially under my eyes; and I have more than just one white hair at my temples. This proof of my lack of invincibility forces me to surrender more of myself to God and helps decrease some of my pride. I can imagine that the older I get, the more I will have to deal with this issue. Praise God that He gave us a punishment to perfectly fit our crime–not in the sense of revenge but in the sense of truly addressing the root problem. My prayer is that He will give me and my husband the wisdom to discipline our own children in this way–to find a discipline that will not just keep them from doing wrong but actually give them what they need.

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I’m not as young as I once was, but I pray my smile lines, frown lines, and injuries will attest to a deeper dependence on God.

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10 thoughts on “Dependence

  1. Heather, I love this post. I totally agree that God gave them just what they needed, a way to depend on him, since they were not in his direct presence as they were in the garden. But he provided a way for them to seek and depend on Him. Yes let us think as parents how to discipline our kids for what they need, ultimately Him. Thank you for sharing your heart yet again.

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    • Thanks, Beccy! I asked God for help doing this, and then Greg suggested a reward system for Little E that would give her time alone with one of us as an ultimate reward. It’s helping her do right and it’s giving her the extra alone time with us that she craves. I love that kind of discipline!

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  2. This is truly beautiful, Heather. I celebrate my 66th birthday this Saturday and I will thank God for each year as it brings me closer to knowing Him (and being with Him).

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  3. What a nice reminder that we’re totally dependent on God – and putting it into perspective of our aging bodies being a catalyst to keeping the reminder forefront in our minds. I hadn’t ever thought of Adam and Eve’s original sin as allowing us to see God’s grace and mercy more fullly.

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