One way to tell if you are part of a consumer culture, said a missionary from Germany a few months back, is if you expect the future to bring you bigger and better in the material, physical sense than what you have today. A consumer would not be ok with having less in the future. Ouch. I like to think of myself as being counter-cultural, less of a consumer than the world around me. Maybe I’m not as counter-cultural as I thought.

First Home
Here’s my first home as a married woman–half of a double-wide trailer on a horse ranch in the middle of nowhere. Lovely, isn’t it? Besides the septic tank back-ups and yellowish well water we couldn’t drink without boiling, we had major ant, frog, spider, and hornet problems. It’s funny how being in love makes even the ugly surroundings appear beautiful. I loved my time there, but still, I’m not sure I would want to go back now.

It’s not really that I want bigger and better so much. We have a nice, comfortable house on a quiet street with a great backyard. I’m fairly well satisfied with what God has given us. At this point I feel I would be happy if we never moved. However, I’m not too happy with the idea of having less. I don’t care too much about the backyard (Greg would have less work to do if we had a small one), but I’m not too happy with the idea of a small condo/apartment with shared walls. I certainly don’t like the idea of living in a dangerous neighborhood or on a busy street. I remember living right next to train tracks when Greg and I were in our first year of marriage. All conversation had to stop whenever the train rumbled by, which was, of course, embarrassing when we had guests visiting. I don’t really want to go back to that, unless something much greater is gained with it, like a view of the ocean.

Here’s our little redbud that we planted from a seedling. There’s something nice about being able to plant your own trees, bushes, and flowers.

However, if I am to follow Jesus, I have no guarantee of bigger and better in the future, unless I’m talking spiritually. In fact, the Man I’m following left the best situation possible in Heaven to be born in a manger, where He was laid in an animal feeding trough after He was born. Not only that, but He was also born to a poor family, a family that couldn’t even afford the lamb that was to be offered as a burnt offering for a newborn child (Luke 2:22-24) (the Law allowed poor families to offer a pair of turtledoves or two young pigeons (Lev. 12:2-8) in the place of a lamb). And it’s not like He was raised in modern American poverty with the luxuries of clean running water, a car or public transportation, and indoor plumbing. On top of all that, He was misunderstood, spurned by those He came to save, and rejected by one of His closest friends. He was mistreated, abused, whipped, and murdered.

If He who gave up so much for the likes of me asks me to follow Him to a life of less (materially speaking) in the future, I need to be ok with that. I did say He could do anything with me not that long ago. I have to be careful lest I start snatching up some of those items I already laid on the altar. Jesus says the one who “wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me” (Matt. 16:24). But is this much of a sacrifice? Not compared to His sacrifice, and especially not if I believe the next verse: “For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it” (Matt. 16:25).

I say, yes, Lord; if You want our family to climb down the material ladder instead of up, lead on! I want to stop blindly following my consumer culture and follow God’s leading instead.

What about you? I would love to hear from anybody who has felt God’s call to a life of less!


6 thoughts on “Consumer

  1. I have felt this too, Heather. Although realizing that I’m more of a consumer than I thought I was is rather convicting. Here I was, thinking I was being different. 😉

    Thanks for posting. It’s so true. What God has done for us makes anything we do for him (or think we do for him) pale deeply in comparison. Thank goodness for his patience and faithfulness!


  2. All cultures are consumer cultures. There are producers and by necessity, consumers. Counter culture or not, we are ALL consumers. Why would any society, or culture as you say, expect the future to bring anything less than bigger and better in the material, physical sense than what it has today? We value ‘materials’ for good reason. They improve our lives in myriad ways. Many people, unfortunately, find satisfaction, or meaning in the ‘material’ world and forget that we actually exist in a Spiritual world, whether they are aware of it or not. If you follow Jesus, then you have no true satisfaction in the material things you ‘consume’, but you certainly benefit from them and for good reason.
    Climb up the material ladder, while not abusing, but using those materials to honor the One who made them possible.


    1. Good point that all cultures are probably consumer driven cultures. I’m not against climbing the material ladder. I don’t think Jesus said we can’t. I just know that sometimes He calls us to go down the ladder, and I want to be ok with that should He call me.


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