A Strong Voice for Good or Ill

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by Heather Bock

I was a fairly new teacher, weak in hard ball discipline and glad to teach freshmen since I didn’t look any older than the seniors. My stomach would tie itself in knots as fifth period approached. One girl in particular led that class—I had a few stress pimples caused by and named after her. I’m not sure why she had a vendetta against me, but she even led her mother in the same prejudice. Most of the rest of the class also followed suit.

I had one other similar sophomore class a few years later with a few male school-haters, and I remember one sweet girl privately apologizing for the class—too weak socially to stand up to them, but too nice to watch it happening without saying anything. Unlike my freshman class, a good turn came for me when some of the sophomore leaders ended up expelled from school for a time. In that time, there was a turnaround in the attitude. I was able to reach the hearts of those left. I’ve also had many classes where I and strong positive student leaders quickly shut down negative influences and brought about a good class attitude from the beginning.

A strong voice for good or for ill can have much power.

I hear many Christians talk about how we are a minority in America. Maybe they feel like Elijah did in I Kings 19, alone and persecuted by the majority. I sometimes feel like part of an even smaller minority, however, when I don’t want to rail against our fallen, broken culture. We can and should talk to each other about how their actions are sinful, but the people themselves don’t need judgment and hateful words. They need Jesus and His love just like I do. I would be the same as the rest of the culture without Him.

I find it incredibly uncomfortable to stand out against others and enter into the lives of those with different ideologies from my own to truly love them well. I have to push past tension when I choose to love when others are pushing away or forgive when most are shouting retribution. It takes a lot of courage. I can tell you right now that I don’t always have that kind of courage.

But what did God command His people to do over and over in the Bible? “Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9). What did Jesus do when religious leaders asked Him to condemn a sinner? He said, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her” (John 8:7), and when the accusers left, He said to the woman, “I do not condemn you, either. Go. From now on sin no more” (John 8:11). God calls us to love as He does (I John 4:11) with grace and truth, and even a minority willing to stand with a voice of love can make a huge impact for good.

How do we do this? I’m still trying to figure this out myself, and I think it will look a little different for each of us. I live in a pretty homogenous slice of this world, so I have few places to enter into tension. I’ve started by loving my students from all over the world by teaching them with excellence, kindness, and respect and helping whenever I see a need. I can also speak out for love on social media. I’m not always as brave as I need to be—many times I’m more like that girl in my class whispering apologies. However, with God’s help, I hope I can someday be one of the ones consistently standing up for love, influencing others to do the same.

How about you? How are you pushing through the tension?

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12 thoughts on “A Strong Voice for Good or Ill

    1. Thanks, Mike! They’re my reflections mixed from sermons I’ve heard, experiences I’ve had, and I think the Holy Spirit’s voice in my heart. If I don’t have a lot of opportunities right now to press through the tension, I hope others that do will!

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  1. This is wonderful, Heather. It’s always such a good reminder that, without Jesus, I would be just like the rest of the world. I can take no credit for what he’s done in my life. Thanks for writing with such humility, friend. 🙂

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  2. This is spot on Heather. I used to be the timid young girl whispering apologies away from the crowd, but the older I get the more courageous I become. I think it’s because I’m finally beginning to know the One in whom I have believed. But all the knowledge and apologetics and character transformation is nothing but clanging cymbals without love. Love is not approval. Love is recognizing that we are all sinners saved by grace. Thank you for this timely post.

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    1. I love this! This is so true. And love without approval of actions is so hard to live out. I became significantly more confident when I turned 30, and as I near 40, I feel even more confident as I grow with Jesus. I still have a long way to go!

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  3. We sure do need to speak up. Sometimes I pray silently “Lord, your words not mine.” When people hear my tragic story and I tell them I’m a believer they are sometimes amazed. That’s the best testimony of all. No one can argue with your story.

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    1. I love your words of warning: the Lord’s words, not ours. If we speak up for good but we’re only using our own words, they may not end up being for good. If they’re God’s words, they will never return void. Thank you for this comment, and thank you for telling your story.

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    1. I’m not as courageous as I need to be, either, so I’m preaching to myself in this one. Thank you for the reminder that we need to do it with His strength. We couldn’t do it without Him.

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  4. Excellent post Heather! As writers our written voice is often heard more frequently than our oral voice (which is why Christian writers should be speakers- an area I’m working on). Regardless of your audience be compassionate and authentic.

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